Secret Shoperias Nestled in NYC: Reveal #1

My lovelies…

As promised, I am divulging one spot in NYC, adorned with high-end designer clothing and accessories. Check out El Mundo, located on Valentine avenue in the Fordham Road section of the Boogie Down, Bronx. I was doing my normal run of “antiquing” in the historical Bronx, and decided to get some varnish for the newly bought 1910 French headboard I scored…Of course, I was in the area and saw this giant store which resembled the classic “99 Cents” joint- (Urban dwellers should know what I’m talking about *smiles*). In my head “this store should have the varnish,” so I walk in, and am I taken by surprise? Yes indeed. A whole swarm of people diving in big brown boxes- what in the world could these folks be looking for? Well what do you know, a cute Spanish lady throws a Kate Spade purse up in the air “Tu quieres mami“…”Of course I want this.” (SMILING) Took it to the cashier along with my varnish…grand total- $4.25!
A joke? I kid you not. Kate Spade cow-hide clutch for less than my table shine…wow $1.25.
I had to look in the box for myself and to my surprise, Juicy Couture Boxes, 10 of them to be exact!

Well, that’s all for now. You may doubt this, but my resources are credible. Check out this NYC nestled shoperia, and best believe, it will not be your last visit.

Until next time ….stay positive

*****Ashleigh-Eternity signing off*****

LSU Gets Spicy …Catching Up with Candy Girl’s star and video model, the lovely Ms. Blanca Lopez

Hot, spicy and “tell-it-like-it-is” reality,docu-soap star from E!’s blazing American series Candy Girls, Blanca Lopez stops in on Life and Style Union to have some good old-fashioned conversation with founder and CEO of LSU, Ashleigh Fitzwilliam. Check it out beautiful people.

AF: Thanks so much for stopping by to chat Blanca. How’s life treating you?

Blanca Lopez: Hi Ashleigh! Im great. I have love and its a beautiful thing..

AF: I remember watching Candy Girls on E!, like the reality TV junkie I am, and I was particularly drawn to the personality, Blanca Lopez. You have this no-nonsense persona, and you appear to march to the beat of your own drum. Is this all a part of the TV personality , or is this the real mccoy Blanca Lopez, naked of the Hollywood spotlight?

Blanca Lopez: Yes indeed I do march to the beat of my own drum I don’t disagree with that.

AF: Candy Girls viewers all across the nation were entertained by your alter-ego Feniix; you seemed to drink a lot under this guise. Are there any other traits of your alter-ego not captured on camera?

Blanca Lopez: I never wanted to show Feniix but the producers loved it and I’m glad I did because Feniix has fans from what I hear (smiling)… seems like a lot of people relate to having that other side of them. Sometimes when I drink I become another person not all the time though… it usually has to do with Patron that thing is deadly. But the cameras didn’t really get to see how crazy Feniix can get at times, but that is a good thing.. (smiling)

AF: I suppose so, but we all really want to see how “luda” Feniix can get (smiling).How did you create the name Feniix in the first place?

Blanca Lopez: A friend of mine has a daughter named Phoenix and I thought it was cute but I switched mine up to Feniix. I thought it was so unique that she named her [daughter] that. I felt it had a nice ring to it for me as well (laughing) I didn’t want to name my other side something regular it had to stand out and be fun.

AF: I dig that. Blanca, on the show, you and Danielle Crawley (head of Bella Agency), did not seem to get along. Where and when did it all go wrong?

Blanca Lopez: At first we didn’t get along because of he said she said gossip in Hollywood it all was a miss-understanding… we decided to set our differences aside and work together. She got to know me, I got to know her so its all good now.

AF: That’s totally fab to hear. However, my question is, was this “feud” designed for ratings or was it a real situation?

Blanca Lopez: It was a real feud we didn’t like each other at the time … They cut out the more interesting version when we got into a real ugly argument. They just showed [everyone] a snippet.

AF: Do you both have an amicable relationship now?

Blanca Lopez: Yes we have grown to have love for one another.

AF: Cool. When did you decide to pursue modeling as a career?

Blanca Lopez: When I was 5 [years of age] my mom took me to a fashion show in Mexico. I was in awe and I told her I want[ed] to be one of those!

AF: Did you intend to be a video model? By the way, what videos have you appeared in?

Blanca Lopez: No. I intended to be an actress but I don’t see anything wrong with doing videos as long as they are classy and make you look fabulous. I haven’t appeared in many but of course The Dream -Rocking that Thang, Mims- Move, Pharrel-That Girl, and K.Shawn- Moviestar ( shout out to K.Shawn, my other half…. and the link to K.Shawns video is http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YY1gb0rsV6Y

AF: What is it like working for Bella Agency?

Blanca Lopez: One word fun.

AF: Do you find competition within the group of models signed to Bella Agency- you, Terricka Cason, Brooke Bailey, and Olivia Jones?

Blanca Lopez: Well, we all have different looks and different talents so no I dont think so. When we all don’t get to work together we still support when one of us gets hired, we are a team.

AF: A zillion people want to know if Candy Girls is up for a second season(including me.) What’s the 411?

Blanca Lopez: For now my lips have to be sealed…Sorry I’m going to have to leave you with the suspense.

AF: Alright, fair enough…well, any future projects in the works for you?

Blanca Lopez: Well I recently appeared in a sketch comedy with actor/comedian Mike Epps called “Funny Bidness,” I have a calendar coming out, I’m planning on opening a boutique in my hometown Tucson Arizona in the next year .. daytime shows, movies .. the sky is the limit.. here’s the link to Mike Epps http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y7mUmv6ul6c

AF: As a model, what are some of the things you do to stay in shape? Any fitness 101? Fill us in…

Blanca Lopez: I eat healthy but I also love food (smiling). I’m not the best adviser for staying in shape Ineed to get in the gym and discipline myself (laughing).

AF: Don’t we all..I cannot recall the last time I really worked out (laughing). To all the aspiring models out there in the world, what can you say to them regarding the industry? Is it the famed “cut-throat” arena?

Blanca Lopez: Follow your dreams and everything is not as easy as it seems, its a race out here and also a roller coaster ride.. ups, downs you just go through so much you never know whats going to happen but I am a firm believer that if you work hard anything can happen you have to believe in yourself. “You are what you think about all day long” R.Schuller [said], and what ever it is you want to do in life try to be the best you can be. Never do anything just to do it.

AF: Blanca you really gave some excellent pointers. This was a hot convo, thanks a bunch for taking some time out of your busy schedule to catch-up with Life and Style Union. Stay in touch, you’re always welcome.

Blanca Lopez: Thank you Ash!!!!! Much love

Note to my readers: Alcohol was mentioned in this article. Please be advised that the drinking age limit is 21. In no way does Life and Style Union condone under-aged drinking. Blanca Lopez is over the drinking age requirement. Thank you. Until next time, stay focused, stay true and believe.

*****Ashleigh Fitzwilliam-Eternity signing off*****

The Realness: Soulful Def Jam singer/songwriter Miss Aja Lorraine-Her Story

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Life and Style Union warmly welcomes sultry, singer and songwriter Aja Lorraine, signed to Def Jam and Ruff Ryder record label. This woman, as previously described in LSU updates, bleeds positivity and a self-awareness most cannot even fathom. Her signature phrase “ I am so blessed to know myself…” only entices LSU to get to know her, so let the show begin!

AF: Great to have you on Life and Style Union Aja! Give us a taste of Aja Lorraine…

AJA: THANKS FOR HAVING ME!!! (SMILING BRIGHTLY)

Age: 31

Hometown: BROOKLYN, NY

Ethnicity: BLACK/HISPANIC

Fave Color: RED

Fave Restaurant: PHILIPPE CHOW

Fave Music: JAZZ, OLD~SCHOOL HIP~HOP AND R&B

Fave Food: NOW THIS IS A HARD ONE!!! I LOVE FOOD!!! MY FAVORITE WOULD HAVE TO BE ITALIAN…

AF:Now that the basic 411 is covered, onto the grown-up talk(smiling)… As a music artist, what genre do you fall under?

AJA: I TRULY HATE THE WHOLE GENRE THING, LOL BUT IF I HAVE TO CHOOSE, I WILL SAY R&B, NO WAIT, SOUL… OH NO HOLD UP, MAYBE I’M HIP~HOP… COULD BE JAZZ…SEE WHAT I MEAN??? I LET THE FANS DECIDE… (smiling)

AF: When did you decide to pursue music as a career?

AJA: I NEVER GREW UP THINKING I WANTED TO BE A SINGER, I JUST ALWAYS SANG AND WROTE SONGS… MUSIC IS JUST A PART OF ME THAT COMES NATURAL LIKE WALKING AND TALKING… I DID MUSIC BECAUSE IT MADE ME FEEL GOOD, SLOWLY PEOPLE BEGAN TO TAKE NOTICE AND THAT IS HOW MY MUSIC CAREER DEVELOPED INTO WHAT IT IS NOW… TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION DIRECTLY, I WILL SAY THE DAY THAT I SIGNED TO RUFF RYDERS WAS THE DAY I DECIDED TO PURSUE A MUSIC CAREER… (laughing)

AF: There are so many singers/songwriters in the industry, both nationally and internationally. What distinguishes you from all the rest?

AJA: I THINK IT’S THE FACT THAT A LOT OF SINGER/ SONG~WRITERS ARE JUST FOLLOWING THE TRENDS… I TEND TO WRITE WHAT I AM FEELING OR GOING THROUGH AT THE TIME AND I SING IN MY OWN UNIQUE WAY, (FROM THE HEART)AND ALSO I TRY VERY HARD TO STAY AWAY FROM COPYING ANY~ONE’S STYLE OR GOING WITH WHATS IN… I ENJOY BEING UNIQUE…

AF: When were you signed to Def Jam/Ruff Ryder?

AJA:WELL, THAT IS A LONG STORY BUT I WILL GIVE YOU THE SHORT VERSION… I CAN’T EXACTLY RECALL THE YEAR I SIGNED WITH RUFF RYDERS, BUT I RESIGEND WITH THEM AND SIGNED A DISTRIBUTION DEAL WITH DEF JAM IN ’05…

AF: Have we seen you in any music videos? Any guest appearances on MTV,VH1,BET or any on-camera features?

AJA: I WAS IN DRAG~ON’S VIDEO, DMX VIDEO… NO MTV, VH1, OR BET YET.

AF: I listened to your track collab with the beautiful EVE. How was it working with one of the most dynamic and lyrically blessed female hip hop artists in the country?

AJA: SHE MAKES YA BRING YA A GAME… SHE’S A VERY HARD WORKER…SHE IS SO FUN AND OUT~GOING… SHE WAS A PLEASURE TO WORK WITH AND I AM TRULY BLESSED TO HAVE MET HER AND WORKED WITH HER!!! LOVE YA EVE!!!

AF: Have you worked with any other mainstream artists and/or producers?

AJA: LET’S SEE…. DRAG~ON, EVE, DMX, JADA~KISS, STYLES P, JIN, SWIZZ BEATS, NEO DA MATRIX, MAHOGANY, TIMBALAND, ANGIE STONE… AND THERE MAY BE A FEW OTHERS…

AF: I think you and Andre 3000 would make a mean track in the studio;both of you are so diverse and bring a different flavor to mainstream music on the ?whole. Do you concur

AJA: OH HELL TO THE YES!!! I LOVE ANDRE… HIS MUSIC IS GREAT!!! I THINK THAT WOULD BE ONE OF MY BEST COLLABS EVER… I FIND A LOT OF SIMILARITIES BETWEEN US… HE SEEMS LIKE HE JUST ENJOYS MAKING GOOD SOULFUL MUSIC AND HE FOLLOWS HIS OWN GUT INSTINCTS AND FEELINGS JUST LIKE I DO…

AF: Are you going to make that happen (laughing)?

AJA: NO DOUBT!!! THAT IS ON THE TO DO LIST!!! ( LAUGHING HARD) BUT SO SERIOUS!!!

AF: Do/did you encounter any impediments while trying to make your stamp in the music industry? What about your journey to stardom- was it a difficult one?

AJA: I’M STILL ON THE JOURNEY!!! AND THE IMPEDIMENTS ARE OVERWHELMING AT TIMES… UPS AND DOWNS, DISAPPOINTMENTS… I KNOW THEM ALL TO WELL… BUT, I TRY HARD NOT TO FOCUS ON THAT… I JUST KEEP MOVING… THERE IS ONLY ONE THING THAT CAN MAKE ME STOP THE JOURNEY, THAT IS THE LOVE FOR MY KIDS… IF AT ANY TIME MY KIDS SAY IT’S TIME TO STOP AND JUST BE MOMMY, I WOULD KISS THE GAME GOOD~BYE…

AF: How have your life experiences molded you into the individual you are presently?

AJA: I HAVE HONESTLY BEEN THROUGH MOST OF LIFE’S DRAMA… FROM BEING A SEXUALLY ASSAULTED TEEN, TEEN PREGNANCY, HAVING A CHILD DIE AND COME BACK TO LIFE, DEATH OF LOVED ONE’S, BEING POOR, BEING RICH, FALLING IN LOVE, FALLING OUT OF LOVE, SELF ESTEEM ISSUES, FINANCIAL PROBLEMS, BEING IN JAIL, DOMESTIC ABUSE, DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY AND MUCH MUCH MORE… I AM LIVING PROOF THAT LIFE GOES ON!!! THAT YOU CAN KEEP A SMILE ON YOUR FACE AFTER ALL THE BULLS**T… I SMILE BECAUSE I AM TRULY HAPPY… I SING BECAUSE I AM HAPPY!!! I’M GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL TO GOD FOR HELPING THROUGH IT ALL AND ALLOWING ME TO GET TO KNOW MYSELF… I FEEL SOOOOOOO BLESSED TO KNOW MYSELF… THIS IS NOT A COCKY STATEMENT!!! EVERY~ONE SHOULD GET TO KNOW THEMSELVES WELL… HOW CAN YOU INTERACT WITH OTHER PEOPLE AND REALLY BE “YOU” IF YOU DON’T KNOW WHO “YOU” ARE???I AM A SURVIVOR, A FIGHTER, A MOTHER, A DAUGHTER. A SISTER, A LOVER, AN ARTIST AND MUCH MORE… BUT MORE THAN ANYTHING, I AM A CHILD OF GOD…

AF: I find your statements very profound and so many people out there can relate to your story. So real.The crux of Life and Style Union’s mission as an online magazine is to give back to the youth community at large, for this population serves as the leaders of tomorrow? Do you share similar sentiments? How do you give back to your community?

AJA:CHILDREN ARE EVERYTHING TO ME!!! ALL CHILDREN… I AM WORKING HARD TO GET TO A POINT IN LIFE WHERE I CAN GIVE TO YOUTH ORGANIZATIONS THAT NEED HELP… THAT IS A MAJOR GOAL… AT THE TIME I AM NOT FINANCIALLY WEALTHY BUT I CAN GIVE MY TIME AND LOVE TO ANY~ONE WHO MAY NEED ME… SOMETIMES, IF ALL YOU CAN GIVE IS A SMILE, A HUG OR ENCOURAGEMENT, YOU ARE TRULY GIVING ALL YOU GOT… I TRY HARD TO PROVIDE ALL OF THESE THINGS EACH DAY…

AF: Aja ,this is your opportunity to address the masses of Life and Style Union youth readers all across the globe. What can you share with them about life and success? The floor is yours (smiling)…

AJA: TO THE YOUTH (THE FUTURE), I AM SAYING PLEASE DON’T GIVE UP ON YOURSELF, LEARN YOUR WORTH AND WHERE YOU STAND, THERE IS A PURPOSE AND A PLAN FOR YOU… YOU ARE SOOOOO MUCH BETTER THAN YOU KNOW, ALLOW YOUR CONFIDENCE TO GROW, DO NOT LET DEMONS ALSO KNOWN AS HATERS STOP YOUR FLOW… I KNOW LIFE BRINGS MANY PROBLEMS, YOUR CHALLENGE IS TO SOLVE THEM, DON’T GIVE UP ON YOU, YOU HAVE COME SO FAR… I KNOW THE WORLD MAY NOT ACCEPT YOU, HATERS HURT AND NEGLECT YOU, BUT YOU ARE A CHILD OF GOD… SO PLEASE BE WHO YOU ARE!!! SHINE FOR ALL TO SEE, DON’T FALL SHORT OF BEING YOURSELF, DON’T WORRY ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF YOU… YOU GOTTA SEE THAT YOU ARE UNIQUE, IT’S IN YOUR WALK, YOUR STYLE, YOUR SPEECH…POTENTIAL IS INFINITE IF “YOU” BELIEVE!!!!SPEAK LIFE TO YOUR LIFE AND YOU WILL HAVE SUCCESS!!!

AF: Aja you are the epitomy of inspiration. What you said here, has touched me and I am confident it has touched the hearts of so many people…amazing. Thank you very much Aja for catching up with Life and Style Union. It has been a pleasure speaking with you. The LSU community welcomes you back at any time (smiling.)

AJA: NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO… THANK YOU LSU!!! GOD BLESS YOU AND ALL YOU DO!!! (SMILING BRIGHTLY)

Voice of the People: Unearth Your Inner Fashionista with the Fabric Twinz..pix coming soon…

The Ja’dore Fashion Show: Arts for Progress Charity Event was a great success. Turnout was great, food was a little shaky, but the collections from the up and coming fashion designers significantly made up for the dry burger patties and burnt pickles. The event was held at club BLVD – located on Bowery street in NYC- showcasing some of the tri-state area’s most fabulous and talent fresh designers. Overall, theme of the collections presented- urban meets runway vogue. The Fabric Twinz definitely caught my attention as their fashion sense captured the essence of the word “ORIGINALITY.” The beautiful mosaic of colors jumped right off the fabric and into my orbs. A billion dollars in the style bucket for sure. Fabric Twinz took some time out of their busy schedules to talk with Life and Style Union…

Ashleigh:
Recently, at the Ja’dore Fashion Show, I spotted your unique designs and literally desired to snatch the clothes right off the models! The colors used were so vibrant, and the patterns, totally eclectic. What ignites your creativity?

The Fabric Twinz:
Everything from movies and paintings to different countries we are inspired by alot of different things its all about observing your surroundings….

Ashleigh:
How long have you guys been fashion designing?

The Fabric Twinz:
Tanise has been designing for about a year and a half and I’ve been designing and sketching since the age of 12 but we’ve been working together as a designer duo for about a year.

Ashleigh:
I noticed most of your collections consisted of female apparel. Do you have male collections as well?

The Fabric Twinz:
We are actually working on our mens collection now so stay tuned.

Ashleigh:
How did the brand “Fabric Twinz” arise?

The Fabric Twinz:
The first time we went out with matching fabrics was on June. 23, 2008 but we just thought it would be cool to do for Erica’s 21st B-day but then a couple of months after that we went to the fabric store to buy some fabric and we just ended up getting the same fabric, we made our own outfits to go out to the club and then we just continued to do it like 2-3 times a week and people started to notice.

Ashleigh:
Where are you guys from?

The Fabric Twinz:
The Bronx,NY

Ashleigh:
The Fabric Twinz defines style. Let Life and Style Union in on your fave “shoperias” around town!

The Fabric Twinz:
We love thrift shops especially the ones in New Jersey and Deleware because of the quality clothing that you can get for so cheap and ofcourse H&M thats all we really wear besides our own designs.

Ashleigh:
Do you design plus-size clothing? If not, why?

The Fabric Twinz:
Not now but ofcourse we will in the future because we have alot of family and friends that are plus size and we see how hard it is for plus size women to find things that fit well.

Ashleigh:
Fall is right up on our heels, and winter will be here in the blink of an eye. What can LSU readers anticipate from your Fall/Winter collections?

The Fabric Twinz:
There will be alot of great dresses and outfits that can be worn during the holiday season and what we will always have is classic peices as well as trendy peices so there will be something for everybody.

Ashleigh:
Life and Style Union wants to see what you up and coming fashion designers are made of. For each body type described below, design an ensemble that you think accentuates natural assets or masks unflattering flaws. Show LSU what you got!
Body Type A
*Female 5’10
*Long legs
*Short torso
*Size 11 shoes
*Pant Size: 8
*Bra Measurement: 34A
*Shirt Size: Medium
*General Physical Characteristic: Excess fat around mid-section
*Small derrière

Fabric Twinz:
A nice mini-dress with a Sweet heart top and a flare bottom, the sweet heart neck line is great for woman with small breast it also shows off your shoulders and makes your upper body look longer. The flare at the bottom of the dress hides the excess fat around your mid-section and the shortness of the dress shows off your long legs. when you have long legs you either have to wear dress very short, knee length or to the floor nothing in between.

Ashleigh:
Body Type B
*Female 4’11
*Short neck
*Bra Measurement: 40DD
*Size 6 shoes
*Pant Size: 15
*Shirt Size: Extra Large
*General Physical Characteristic: Stocky built with love handles

Fabric Twinz:
Scoop neck and V-neck tops with loose fit or A-line tops
because these tops show of more cleavage and the a-line shape hides love handles. Its always good to have a Classic Blazer.

Ashleigh:
Body Type C
*Female 5’6
*Size 8 shoes
* Short legs
*Pant Size: 5
*Bra Measurement: 36C
*Shirt Size: Medium
*General Physical Characteristic: Athletic, hour glass figure

Fabric Twins:
Accentuate your hour glass shape with belts,wrap dresses and pencil skirts. Shorter dresses are also best for people with short legs and knee boots make your legs look longer.

Ashleigh:
Are you scheduled for any fashion showcases in the near future?

The Fabric Twinz:
Yes, we have lots of shows coming up including our own show Fashion’s Obsession 2″ A Night at the Movies” the show will take place on Oct. 3, 2009 at Washington Irving.

Ashleigh:
Where can LSU find and purchase your clothing?

The Fabric Twinz:
You can contact us http://www.myspace.com/TheFabricTwinz or E-mail us at Fabrictwinz@aol.com . We are working on our website right now so it will be up very soon…..

Ashleigh:
As blossoming fashion designers, what words of encouragement can you give little girls who cut up pieces of fabric to make “Barbie clothing,” in hopes that one day they can be famous designers, as well as advice for the upcoming fashion designers of 2009-2010?

The Fabric Twinz:
Keep going…practice makes perfect also don’t make excuses; always find a solution and last but not least the three words we live by Professionalism, Integrity and Appearance.

Ashleigh:
Thanks for being with us on Life and Style Union. Ladies and gentlemen, you have been granted exclusive access to the Fabric Twinz, and some of their top fashion secrets. Be sure to check out their social networking site Myspace…some really HOT pieces! Until next time “Be the stylist of your life.”- Ashleigh Fitzwilliam

Fabric Twinz:
Thank you so much Ashleigh.

Voice of the People: Fitness Adonis Petr Prielozny…Get a Load On His Workout Regimen

Let’s drop our dumbbells and water bottles, and give a round of applause to Petr Prierlozny, NYC’s junior bodybuilding champion, strongman competitor, sports model and renown fitness trainer. Straight from the Czech Republic, Prielozny has made his stamp on American soil, taking the health and fitness industry by storm. Ladies enjoy the view, gentlemen take note, as Life and Style Union grants exclusive access to Czech and NYC adonis, Petr Prielozny. Welcome to Life and Style Union Petr. LSU hopes you can give us a full scope on how you achieved your Greek-warrior physique, as well as how you managed to voyage beyond European soil, and claim your piece of the American pie, at such a young age- 22, had to shout you out (smiling)! Let’s begin…

Ashleigh:
Petr, when did you come to America, and what did you desire to do once you got there?

Petr:
I arrived in the USA in January 09 with one single goal. Live an American dream. American dream for me means that I wanted to win bodybuilding contests, become a known fitness model and also try some acting jobs.

Ashleigh:
How was your transition from the Czech Republic to the United States?

Petr:
I was getting reading for this transition over two years so I knew I had to keep a strong mind. It’s not easy to leave your family and all your friends and begin in a totallynew world for you, using second language, getting new job, preparing for contest alone.

Ashleigh:
Who and/or what inspired you to become a body builder?

Petr:
As a teenager I loved watching the movies with Arnold Schwarzenegger who was best bodybuilding in 80′. I got very inspired with his physique but also with his story and straight going mind. I realized I am similar and every goal I want achieve I really achieve.

Ashleigh:
What are the most pertinent elements to maintaining your physique?

Petr:
The most important factors in bodybuilders life are correct nutrition, hard workout and strong dedication. Nutrition for ripped body, workout for muscle mass and dedication for keeping both previous factors on 100%.

Ashleigh:
In the junior body building championship, based on what criterion do the judges derive at the championship winner?

Petr:
I would like to correct you, by age I am still junior but I am already competing in adult men divisions to make it harder for me. The judges watch for several things: muscle separation, condition, symmetry, vascularity, presentation on stage, posing, charisma.If you have all this, you can fight and win against more massive guys.

Ashleigh:
Considering how competitive the fitness industry is, how do you keep your body intact?

Petr:
I am very scared of any injury because it would slow or stop my sport career so I have to be very careful. Honestly I skip all other sports to prevent injury, also stretching and warm up before each workout is very important so your muscles get ready for hard work.

Ashleigh:
In your experience, have you encountered individuals who used anabolic and synthetic steroids?

Petr:
I must say for protection of bodybuilding that anabolic steroids are necessary part of bodybuilding preparation. Top bodybuilders use this pharmaceutics for preventing the joint, muscle injuries. But this is in every high level sport. The public want to see best results, faster sprinters, stronger power lifters, taller basketball players and also more massive bodybuilders. The point is it’s their profession. If they don’t succeed they don’t earn money for bills, family etc. If you are high level sportsmen and it’s your profession, you have to be the best.

Ashleigh:
Have you ever used performance enhancers during the course of your fitness career?

Petr:
I compete on high level of bodybuilding and this is nesseccary part of sport on high level.

Ashleigh:
Have you ever been pressured to use these steroids?

Petr:
I would never do anything under the pressure of anybody else. All I do is my own desicions and I am the only one responsible for them.

Ashleigh:
Have you had plastic-surgery to sculpt your body?

Petr:
No, I never had plastic surgery to sculpt my body but its great compliment from you. (laugh). Every detail on my body is hours and hours of big dedication,determination and hard work.

Ashleigh:
Before entering the bodybuilding competition, does each competitor undergo heavy screening for drugs, steroids, etc?

Petr:
There is many different federations on the world. Some of them does drug testing, some of them doesnt test. My own opinion is there should be only non testing federations because all high sport is about great results and every competitor is responsible for himself.

Ashleigh:
How many times does a competitor undergo screening processes?

Petr:
If you are in tested organization, it depends on level you are. Some competitors are tester once a year, some of them are tested once in 2 months. Tests are quite expensive so its not as easy to afford too much test.

Ashleigh:
For LSU readers who trying to lose weight and maintain their newfounded physiques, what fitness 101 can you share with them?

Petr:
Keep correct diet, its all about caloric intake. Count how many calories a day you eat and then you know this is your day limit. You should stay under your limit. If you add enough of sport activites you will get first results very fast.

Ashleigh:
A normal day of fitness training consists of…

Petr:
Depending on your level, you should do 60 minutes wourkout in the gym, then about 20-40 minutes of cardion. 3-4 times a week and you will be in great shape.

Ashleigh:
When did you decide to pursue sports modeling?

Petr:
Sport modeling is just a “side girl” for me.. Bodybuilding gives me good looking physique and my face isnt bad as well. Since I heard i should try it, I did it and got great results.I am covered with several best US agencies all over the states. I have exclusive contracts and I shoot with industry hottest photographers.

Ashleigh:
Are you signed to any agencies? If so, which agencies?

Petr:
For east coast I have three agencies, Silver Models (NY area), NorthAmericanBodies (NY, FL) and All American Guys ( FL and whole East coast).For west coast I have only one but the best agency with best mananger. It is NorCalBodz and I am proud to represent them.

Ashleigh:
As a strong man competitor, what type of physical training did you do to prepare for the competition? Is it less, the same, or more intense than the training done for the bodybuilding championship?

Petr:
Well, I always tried strongman competitions just for fun again only as a “side girl”. I didnt change to preparation, I am naturaly very strong and with bodybuilding training I get even stronger. But you are right, if I would decide to fully focuse on strongman competitions, then I would have to change the workout and preparation totally.

Ashleigh:
What feats did you perform during the strong man competition?

Petr:
Since this were an amateur contests, we had less disciplines. Tire flips (550lbs tire) I fliped it 16 times in 2 minutes.Car pulling ( 2500lbs) 60 meters in 30 secondsRun with dumbbells (150lbs dumbbells).

Ashleigh:
Did you win the competition? If not, why?

Petr:
I win in my sport, I didnt win in different sport. I placed 13th from 30 adult guys. I was 19 years old.

Ashleigh:
What advice can you give readers all around the globe, who want to pursue fitness careers?

Petr:
Its not easy to be succesfull in fitness industry, but if you trust in yourself, just try it and do your best. Thank you Ashleigh for [this] interview with me.

Ashleigh:
Pleasure having you on Life and Style Union Prielozny, to share your story with us, with integrity and truth. Many can learn from your example in more ways than one.

Ask Eternity: I Want To Cheat…Help!

Hey Eternity,

I am writing to you because I am in a total dilemma! Recently, I celebrated my one year anniversary with my girl “Haley.” She’s the love of my life. But I have my eyes on this guy at the crematory who I sincerely have a crush on. Let’s call this guy “Xavier.” Xavier and I want to chill, and I know something will happen, as in we will end up kissing. That’s it of course. Mind you, I go away to school oversease in less than two weeks. Should I just oust the love fire within me and be faithful to my girl- afterall I do leave for school in England pretty soon- or should I cheat? This question is blunt, but I really want your opinion.

Sincerely,
Anonymous

Dear Anonymous,

Quite honestly, I don’t think you belong in a relationship at this time. You do not seem to take commitment seriously at all. You stated that you recently celebrated your one year anniversary with your girlfriend. Yet, you desire someone else. Really think about whether or not you want to maintain your current steady relationship with “Haley.” If not, break off ties with her because it is totally unfair to cheat on someone who you profess to love. Note that “Xavier” is just a fling. Are you willing to throw away your established relationship for momentary personal gratification?
Also, you mentioned that you are going away to school in England. There would be no purpose in trying to do something with “Xavier,” when you won’t even be around him in the first place- not as if he will stick around and be faithful to you while you are in England, knowing full well that you cheated on your long-term partner with him. Whatever seeds you sow in the soil of the universe, you will reap tenfold. The law of Karma is nothing less than accurate. Ultimately, you know the answer to your own question. Thoroughly think through your actions, before you wound up hurting someone else and yourself in the process. Hope this helps Anonymous.

Alpha Male: Mantrums, Let’s Talk About It…

Some time ago, I was watching Tyra and the topic of the day was Mantrums. If you didn’t see the episode, youtube it!
In any event, mankind has now introduced a new word to the pseudo-Webster’s Dictionary; Mantrums- the misconduct and disorderly behavior of an adult male, usually associated with frequent outburts, temper tantrums, fist throwing, bucket kicking, the whole nine yards of disaster…. My eyes grew large when I saw this grown man kick over a pile of laundry because he did not have his own way. Amazing indeed!
Is it possible that these men have undegone emotional instability during childhood? What do you guys think causes “Mantrums?” Mental handicap of mere “bad boy attitude? Leave your comments below…

Alpha Male: Women Who Seek Security = Gold Diggers???

Fellas, Life and Style Union beckons your input on this steamy topic. Neyo and Jamie Foxx introduced a fresh concept to mainstream culture with their duet smash hit “She Got Her Own.” Both artists collabed to celebrate the independent woman in society. All that is good and gravy; as a matter of fact, it is about time that the seal inhibiting social and economic mobility for women, be broken, and true acknowledgement of the female work ethic and societal contribution, be diffused among us Earthlings… However, does this song, serve as a medium to reinforce the modern sentiment that women should not expect any financial gaining from their partners because they should “have their own?” Think.

While this may be true, the traditional roles of the male figure should not in any way, be obscured with the current trend – females wearing the pants. The male is the provider…”he is the doe increaser..the care taker” as Heather Headly musically bellowed in her 2002 album release “This is Who I Am,” (p.s…where is she anyway??)Why is it that we are now in an age where ladies are paying their own way through dinners and movies, and they aren’t even going solo? Unacceptable.

The new term for the majority of women who do seek a man who is financially secure is “gold digger.” Kanye West resurrected that word from the cavern when he launched his jam “Gold Digger” featuring none other than Jamie Foxx back in 05. What is the purpose of the term Gold Digger? Is it to attach a negative connotation to a female who wants her man to be a man? Is it to alleviate a man of his responsibilities within a committed relationship- paying the bills? Spending cash on his Dulcinea? Wining and dining? Hello! Those are the bells and whistles of courtship!

Some of these rap artists glorify this term, but the question is: How can you even use sex and gold digger in the same song? Let’s get down and dirty LSU… Ever heard of the bunny ranch? What about those high profile escorts who have Wall street money bandits falling over like leeches? Do you think their services are free? Not in the least; we’re talking about Lambos with the cherry red interior, five carat Rolex gifts, black diamonds by the barrel! Now gentlemen, let us rewind shall we and focus on the beautiful girl next door on Elm street who you date. Is it totally inconceivable for her to want diamonds and pearls…or to be treated like the lovely goddess she is? Wait a minute, don’t even entertain the idea that money doesn’t mean everything. We all know that common phrase to be partially true wherein we cannot carry money to the grave. However, in all other contexts linked to life as we know it, money is number one. To further validate this perspective, let’s analyze the present times- we are in economic pillage because of money. The divorce rate is highest in the US, and guess why? Because of the almighty mean green! Point made.

This article is in no way intended for that minority of females who only seek finance from their romance…The purpose of this article is to voice the aggravation and frustration many women hoard -corporate women and housewives alike-because of the term “Gold Digger.” Ladies I want to view your thoughts, Gentlemen let your tenor chords be heard.

**Ashleigh Fitzwilliam- Eternity signing off**

Voice of the People: Q&A with Cutting Edge Fashion Designer Miriam Harris

Life and Style Union warmly introduces Miriam Harris, fondly known as Mimi, an upcoming fashion designer from Newark, New Jersey whose creative zest for apparel and accessories has landed her appearances in several of New York City’s high profile fashion showcases. LSU had the opportunity to catch up with this blossoming fashion synthesizer Mimi, and get the inside scoop on her career and what we can expect from her collections in the future.
Ashleigh:

Greetings Mimi, thank you for being here on Life and Style Union and sharing your unique story with us. LSU wants to know more about you as a fashion designer, so let’s get to the gusto!When did you become aware of your talent and keen eye for fashion?

Mimi:

Well…….I’ve always had a love for fashion. I can remember outfits that my mother used to wear when I was a little girl, like four years old! From as early as I can remember, I enjoyed getting dressed up. I was quite the “girly” little girl .

Ashleigh:

Why do you have such a love for fashion and style?

Mimi:

I think I have a love for fashion and style because I adore art. Any form of expression really whether it’s poetry, painting, graffiti (legal), tattoos……it’s all good to me. Most importantly, I love fashion because it’s wearable art. People live their life in clothes and to be able to have people wearing my art is a dream come true!

Ashleigh:

What inspires your textile creations?

Mimi:

My inspiration comes from three places: memories of my childhood, the cities I’ve lived in and the WONDERFUL era of the 1940s and early 50s! I incorporate these three elements in all of my designs as much as possible.

Ashleigh:
Who do you appeal to mostly in the design and feel of your clothing?

Mimi:
Ladies that want comfort, style and sex appeal. One thing I always strive to do is create garments that you feel comfortable wearing.

Ashleigh:
Do your collections cater to diverse shapes and sizes of the NYC masses?

Mimi:
Oh most definitely! I have been on both sides of the fence physically so I believe that I know what women want. Regardless if you’re a size 2 or a 20, you should feel confident and sexy in the clothing you wear.

Ashleigh:
Have you every considered being a contestant on the hip Bravo reality show Project Runway?

Mimi:
LOL! I would love to. I’ve been told to submit and try out for it. Maybe next year though. It’s a fantastic show and a wonderful opportunity! When I go, I want to be able to BRING IT!

Ashleigh:
Does your fashion sense defy all common trends within the popular fashion community, or do you flow with the styles and patterns produced by other designers?

Mimi:
Um, both plus one more. I don’t like to follow trends alot and that’s not how I dress myself. Some pieces are fab and are great to wear nowadays, however I’m a true believer in STAPLES. Every woman should have a great pair of jeans, pencil skirt, classic white shirt, little black dress, cardigian, so on and so forth.

Ashleigh:
As a Black woman and fashion designer in New Jersey/NYC, have you encountered obstacles and/or conflicts with other fashion designers or the industry in general?

Mimi:
Not with other designers as of yet, thank goodness! So far, so good. I’m meeting a lot of new designers that are trying to make their marks, much like myself, and it seems like right now, we’re all trying to follow the “golden rule”. I get notice of shows from them or shoots and I do the same for them. The industry………..well…………it’s very hard to make it in this industry. It’s very cut throat. When I first started trying to get into different fashion houses I got no where FAST! It was very discouraging. I cried alot and sometimes I still do. However, I’m a true believer and have faith in God. I know that if this isn’t what I am to do, then I wouldn’t be able to sew anymore. So I had to hit the pavement harder. I am still stomping (laughing)! Also, that’s the reason why I decided to start my own label “FumiDesigns”. Now “FumiDesigns” is my focus and I’m trying to get my label off the ground!

Ashleigh:
What is your most favorite self-designed piece out of all your creations?

Mimi:
I think my favorite is a tailored wool jacket.It’s cream and white checked with a leopard lining! I think it’s bad, yet classic! It took a LOT of hand work and I was very pleased with the outcome.

Ashleigh:
Viewing your collection presented in the Urban Fashion Week event, I observed that you used black and blue hues throughout. Why did you choose black and blue for the female attire?

Mimi:
I decided to design evening and cocktail for that show so I definitely wanted to use the color black. The aqua came into play when I realized that the fabric I had with the fire motif had a light blue hue in it, very close to the aqua I had. So I decided to explore the light and dark throught that collection.

Ashleigh:
As a popular fashion designer in NJ/NYC, have you acquired a large and diverse clientele base? Who are some of your clients? Any celebs rocking your threads?

Mimi:
Large? Not yet, but God willing I’ll be there soon (laughing!) Right now, I’m working on a client to client basis. I enjoy this because it’s very personal and catering. Hopefully, with my designs being in more fashion shows, I’ll be able to reach out to more clientele. And EVERYONE that I design for is a celebrity in my book (laughing!)

Ashleigh:
I like that Mimi; that’s right LSU people, you are the true stars of the show (laughing.)Where can LSU readers find and purchase your clothing?

Mimi:
LSU readers can view pieces for purchase on
www.facebook.com/fumidesigns , www.myspace.com/fumibymimi. madammimi0618 and fumidesigns are my yahooIM names. Feel free to contact me at either site, instant messenger and/or fumidesigns@yahoo.com.

Ashleigh:
For the young people out there in the world, trying their hand at fashion designing, what 101 advice do you have to share with them?

Mimi:
If you’re passionate about doing this then DO NOT give up. There are lots of obstacles in fashion, much like any other career, but the end result is very rewarding. Push hard and believe in yourself!! Thank you so very much Ashleigh for letting me be apart of Life and Style Union by having this interview. You’re just too cool!

Ashleigh:
Thank you Mimi for taking time out of your schedule to join us on Life and Style Union. You are welcome anytime.

Ladies and Gentlemen, log on to Mimi’s sites to view her collections. Totally fab. I hope to leave you guys with Mimi’s resignating words of encouragement “DO NOT give up.” Until next time, peace and blessings…

*Eternity signing off*

Ginger, Spice and Everything Nice: NYC Secret Gems SneakPeek

As promised, I am finally unveiling the hidden spots, nestled in the streets and back alleys of New York City, where you can stuff your Bloomingdale’s Big Brown Bag, with some of the world’s top fashion designer items..did I mention for 1/4 the price…no gimmick, straight authenticity ladies and gentlemen. So, the whole premise behind this posting resides on a lovely Sunday afternoon voyage through the five boroughs of NY- I was bored, give me a break (smiling.) I like to get the essence of “NYC Urban”- graffiti, bodegas galore and of course the public housing. But I was totally unaware of the secret gems speckled throughout. The following 411 is for my beautiful people whose budget for two outfits does not exceed 300 bucks. Yes..TWO OUTFITS! Shall I say Salvatore Ferrogamo leather for $35? How about some Tory Burch stiletts for $15? Charles David hobo bags under $100???!!!??? For all you monogram fanatics…Gucci loafers for 50- one dollar bills??? Louis V…$10. I kid you not! And guess what is lined up outside the front doors of these stores?!?! Trucks loaded with Bloomingdale’s, Macey’s and Marshall Fields’ shipments! Honestly, I could not believe my eyes and had to share this hot news with you. Yes, no knockoffs here buddy. (lol) My mission is to bless the common people with the beau monde touch and I am determined to accomplish this….stay tuned ladies and gents..stay tuned.

*Eternity signing off*